My Secret Haven

Just when I’m planning to end the year right, I just learned and realized something today. In as much as I don’t want to generalize , I’ve come to conlcusion that people especially Filipinos have an innate nature of being nosy, malicious, and judgemental (my apology pero tamaan na po ang tatamaan but it’s the reality).  Why can’t we let other people mind their own business. If someone doesn’t want to open up with you, then it’s their choice, the way they want to live their life is their own jurisdiction. I just wish that this coming year people would learn to hold their judgement of other people unless they know and understand fully the reason behind that person’s actions. It is easy for us to judge and say that one person’s action is wrong but the truth is the only person who would know that his actions are wrong or right is himself.  I just also wish that in the coming year we would learn to spell out blantly anything we wanted to say in front of that person’s face rather than backstabbing that person and talking behind his/her back or indirectly telling what we wanted to say to someone else rather than going directly to the person concern. I know that this is easier to be said than to be done but at least we should try. We all are different and have different ways of dealing with things and each of us is facing different struggles.  We should at least learn to respect others’ way of life.  Afterall we’re not in the position to judge or to comment about a person unless you know him/her well enough. Tough one, yes but fair enough.  Haha so my new year’s resolution, hmmpp,  nothing just be myself and not minding other people’s opinion, afterall we don’t have to explain to people who really knows us ‘cause they’ll know and we never owe the others an explanation ‘cause they would never understand.